Be a Present Father

This last Sunday we had fathers day, this has not always been a popular day and seems to have been introduced recently over the last few years.

Ironic especially when we are a time when we need Leadership, Headship and direction that only a father can bring.

I want the fathers out there to understand this.

Showing love does in no way show weakness , but makes a child understand that being loved is a part of life and it is meant to be a feeling of trust, sanctuary and unconditional giving.

This makes them a better person who understands what love looks like and can run away from abuse and not be an abuser.

Showing a child affection and giving direction and discipline ,makes a child understand that its ok to be held and still get constructive criticism and direction and it comes from a place of love.

This makes them take the knocks of life in their stride , and understand that it's not personal it's about growth.

Showing a child you can cry and say sorry, makes a child realise that you can be sensitive and humble without worrying about judgment.

This makes them know that even when they are weak they can grow and that when they are wrong, the word sorry is not a taboo but a bridge.

Encouraging your child is the best kind of cheer leading that you can give, what you don't realise is that when you are gone , the words and what you did will leave a lasting impression on that little girl or boy.

It will shape who they are and may ultimately alter their destiny and their perception on what final truth in their life is.

We Salute you all who are fathers , who choose to stand up and be counted and choose to shape the future. May you grow in strength and stature.